{"id":27266,"date":"2012-11-21T00:09:12","date_gmt":"2012-11-21T08:09:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/?p=27266"},"modified":"2012-11-21T00:09:12","modified_gmt":"2012-11-21T08:09:12","slug":"declining-food","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/27266","title":{"rendered":"Declining Food"},"content":{"rendered":"

\t\t\t\tThis can be a tough one, sisters \u2026<\/p>\n

Picture it:<\/p>\n

You’re in the throes of\u00a0Thanksgiving.<\/p>\n

Much to your delight, someone else has done all of the cooking.<\/p>\n

(A girl can dream, can’t she?)<\/p>\n

So, you’re sitting pretty before a plate that is courteously clean …<\/p>\n

nary a smudge of gravy left behind.<\/p>\n

You’ve tried the turkey,<\/p>\n

sampled the stuffing,<\/p>\n

reveled in roasted veggies,<\/p>\n

nibbled, noshed,<\/p>\n

sipped, and sampled\u2014<\/p>\n

and, lo and behold,<\/p>\n

you’re finished<\/em>!<\/p>\n

Now, here comes the hard part:<\/p>\n

Your hostess,<\/p>\n

beaming with benevolence,<\/p>\n

says you must<\/em> eat more, a little taste of this, oh,\u00a0and you haven’t tried that.<\/p>\n

Perhaps she’s already bearing down on you …<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

with a wedge of green, foamy\u00a0jello “salad” (a\u00a0family tradition)<\/p>\n

Instantly, you feel<\/p>\n

PANIC …<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Maybe you’re on a diet,<\/p>\n

sugar-restricted,<\/p>\n

gluten-intolerant,<\/p>\n

or maybe<\/em><\/p>\n

you’re just plain full (or anything<\/em> that’s green and foamy doesn’t appeal to you).<\/p>\n

You don’t want another bite,<\/p>\n

but how can you say so<\/p>\n

and not hurt her feelings?<\/p>\n

No worries.<\/p>\n

Really!<\/p>\n

Tactfully declining an offer of food can be as easy as 1-2-3.<\/p>\n

Here’s the plan of action:<\/p>\n

    \n
  1. Put aside your panic, resist the urge to blurt excuses, and just smile. Yep, smile. This simple gesture conveys satisfaction and confidence without a single word.<\/li>\n
  2. Gently hold up your hand and subtly shake your head\u2014again, these are wordless messages that spare you the agony of justification.<\/li>\n
  3. When asked point-blank to partake in more of the meal, keep your verbal answer short and sweet. A nice “no,” accompanied by a gracious “thank you” will work wonders. If you face further plying, state how much you enjoyed the meal but can’t possibly take another bite. Period. Avoiding excessive explanations will prove to be a lot less painful for you and<\/em> your hostess. (In other words, no lectures about good health and green foam.)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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    Image courtesy of Vintageholidaycrafts.com<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    This can be a tough one, sisters \u2026 Picture it: You’re in the throes of\u00a0Thanksgiving. Much to your delight, someone else has done all of the cooking. (A girl can dream, can’t she?) So, you’re sitting pretty before a plate … Continue reading →<\/span><\/a> Continue reading →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[335,875],"class_list":["post-27266","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gallant_manners","tag-gallant-manners","tag-thanksgiving"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27266","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27266"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27266\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27266"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27266"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27266"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}