{"id":65556,"date":"2018-01-04T00:09:57","date_gmt":"2018-01-04T08:09:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/?p=65556"},"modified":"2018-01-04T00:09:57","modified_gmt":"2018-01-04T08:09:57","slug":"myotahapea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/65556","title":{"rendered":"my\u00f6t\u00e4h\u00e4pe\u00e4"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t\t\t<em><strong>my\u00f6t\u00e4h\u00e4pe\u00e4<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>(n.) Finnish; that secondhand embarrassment you feel when someone is making a fool of themselves, vicarious shame, or shame by proxy. From my\u00f6t\u00e4- (\u201cco-\u201d) +\u200e h\u00e4pe\u00e4 (\u201cshame\u201d).<\/p>\n<p>For some with deep empathy, their my\u00f6t\u00e4h\u00e4pe\u00e4 is so acute as to hide under the covers during movies or television scenes when a character is being ridiculous, or to avoid parties where certain relatives are bound to make an embarrassing entrance.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve never felt it, you probably haven\u2019t had kids yet \u2026<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_65557\" style=\"width: 376px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-65557\" class=\"wp-image-65557\" src=\"http:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Embarrassed_Father_-_Vintage_family_Photo.jpg\" width=\"366\" height=\"526\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-65557\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo by Tony Alter via Wikimedia Commons.<\/p><\/div>\n<p><!--more-->\t\t<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>my\u00f6t\u00e4h\u00e4pe\u00e4 (n.) Finnish; that secondhand embarrassment you feel when someone is making a fool of themselves, vicarious shame, or shame by proxy. From my\u00f6t\u00e4- (\u201cco-\u201d) +\u200e h\u00e4pe\u00e4 (\u201cshame\u201d). For some with deep empathy, their my\u00f6t\u00e4h\u00e4pe\u00e4 is so acute as to &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/65556\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/65556\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-65556","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gleaming_word"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65556","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=65556"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65556\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=65556"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=65556"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.raisingjane.org\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=65556"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}