Standing at the kitchen sink eating

Standing at the kitchen sink eating, I …

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  1. Uh-Oh! How bad is it that I was standing at my desk eating while reading this? Very, pretty, really, awful bad! Thank you for the blog head slap. I will do better. Today. At lunch…

  2. I was thinking along these lines this morning as I peeled the last of my peaches and froze them..and on my way in from the garage I thought to myself how fortunate and grateful I am to have green tomatoes ripening nicely for our late fall dinners. Thank you for posting I am truly a grateful farmgirl.

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Finding Peace at MaryJanesFarm

Ahhhhh, how sweet. My sis came weekend before last, arriving with her daughter and husband from southern Idaho. I decided we’d really, truly take the weekend off. No NOTHING on the agenda other than good food and conversation.

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  1. Linda M says:

    sigh…

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I’ve fallen madly in love … again

Mom and I were summoned to testify as witnesses after someone stole our store sign recently.

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  1. Alyson Outen says:

    Ain’t love grand!!

    I just met my “soul” mate at an antique store in Dallas, Texas! Beautifully stitched, perfectly pre-stretched, gently worn tan boots…just sitting there, waiting for a size 9 country Cinderella to come along!

    Happy boot-scoot-boogie birthday, Megan!!

  2. Anne Cooper says:

    I worked in a western boot store when I was in High School. These look like “Tony Lama” boots. Are they? They are wonderful!!

  3. Debbie says:

    Happy Belated Birthday Meg!
    Love those boots girl!!!
    Hugs,
    Deb ( beach farmgirl )

  4. Meg says:

    Thanks Ladies! A birthday with boots and my Momma is a perfect one!

  5. CJ says:

    Love them! Robin will be sooooooooooo, so very jealous! Happy birthday!!!! Glad you had a change in plans and could ENJOY the day!

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Before I Die, I Want To …

I’ve always thought that one of the most profound ways I can show gratitude for the good things in life is to GO FOR IT.

For what?

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  1. My dream is to meet you! To say thank you in person. How’s that for inspiration….

    • MaryJane says:

      I’ll leave the tent flap open, my friend!

      • Yippee! However, since it is unclear at this time how long you’ll have to leave the tent flap open for me, I suggest you position and park(?- I do not have experience with horses of any size and don’t know if you “park” them like a car or not) Nutmeg, the tiny wonder horsey, by the tent to keep out intruders, such as Moose, until I get there…

  2. Anna Russiano says:

    My dream is a ranch… a place for people who serve others to come and recharge at no cost to them.

  3. Chrissy says:

    My dream is also a ranch, but I would like to have it be organic with a small herd of cattle. But more realistically I’d settle for some chickens. I severely miss living on the farm. I do the best I can in town with a garden and a dog.

  4. Lis says:

    I love your take on gratitude! I like the idea of doing something, taking action to show your gratitude, rather than just acknowledging that you are grateful. I think this will help me stay focused on what matters! Thanks!! (by the way, I have been making your Bakeovers and my family and I simply adore them!)

  5. Meg says:

    Lis, glad to hear the BakeOvers are a hit. Taking action is always on my list of things to do too. Happy day to you!

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Assets

Girls, let’s talk about our babies’ or in my case, my grandbabies’ butterbeans.

What? You didn’t think this journal was all about discretion, did you?

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  1. carol branum says:

    Hi,yes,I remember doing that too,I used about 4 doz a day at first I think,washed them all,I also miss those hard white leather shoes babys wore and the drawstraing nightgowns,babys used to look like babies,not grown adults.My baby is 35 now,I don,t regret being a stay at home mom,or washing all those diapers.I did not breastfeed,and I regret that,I would of but,the formula companies were pushing formula then,and I felt pushed at the hospital to get a shot to dry up my breast,bad idea,my entire hip turned black as cole,and I hear now that they have stopped that all together,and that it posibly could cause cancer,I hope not,It was a shame because I had lots of milk.And if I had it to do over,I would breast feed.I was only seventeen,and I wish I hadn,t of been pushed.I was timid and let them walk all over me!They sent me home with four samples of formula,and brand new product,called newborn “Pampers”,they were so new that they were not sold yet in our town.My hospital stay cost $800.00,thats all.have a great dy,blessed be,carol

    • MaryJane says:

      Memories! Yes, it’s good we’re past that anti-breastmilk era. You’re not alone, I’m sure. My baby is 32 and I just returned home from taking her and her little family out for breakfast to celebrate that wondrous day 32 years ago.

  2. Janelle says:

    I’m a cloth diaper mama of 5 – I was given a bunch of the “new fangled” pocket diapers, but have also made a ton of my own in various styles – old Tshirts are awesome as “prefolds”.

  3. Anna Russiano says:

    I miss all the diapers on the line and never seemed to mind the extra laundry. My youngest is only three but I do miss all of the baby things. When you are in the throws of it it seems never ending. I had 4 under the age of 5 and was just tired. Joyful and grateful but tired. As far a nursing I always had plenty of milk and even over-nighted milk to my sister who had a 3 lb baby and not enough milk. It wasn’t all that long ago for me but even several years out I still worry that my milk will come in when I hear a newborn crying. I guess each stage brings new work and new joy. Now its patching holes in knees, tying hair bows and of course still all the laundry! The old diapers are now used on my daughters babydolls. I’m so blessed!

  4. Jeannie says:

    I tried cloth diapers…..I only had ony child, so one would think I could ace it. Nope. The smell, and it seemed I could never get them really clean…..and the time it took me…..was not long before I found myself buying one of those handy bags of diapers. My daughter is 32, and disposables were pretty new then. I kept buying them. I failed. Could not take the smell and thought of all those germs living in that pail….oh, and she got a big rash, which went away when I used the dispoables. Oh well…..

    • MaryJane says:

      You’ll appreciate this quote (by my book editor) that I included in my first book: “As a new mom in New York City, after hauling buckets of soiled cloth diapers up and down four flights of stairs to a community washing machine, I vowed I would never, ever, for the rest of my life, buy another paper napkin or towel as compensation for switching to disposable diapers. Too much is just too much!” -Pam Krauss

  5. Cindy Baugh says:

    Butterbeans???!!! I thought only southern women called their baby’s bottoms butterbeans? Oh how I laughed when I saw that MaryJane! Do other folks also call girl parts “pookahs” Years ago, my 80 year old ob/gyn confided that “pookah” was his non-medical word for the female anatomy. I was so relieved to know that doctors had words like that instead of the awful technical ones, that I immediately adopted “pookah” for my own use. 30 something years later, all the females and most of the males in our family of mostly girl children use this word both seriously and affectionally for all the girl parts. And we are fine with that.

    • Samantha says:

      Mary Jane, I have you to thank for my “stash” of cloth diapers. I read in one of your books how much you loved cloth diapers, and it got me thinking that if and when I ever had a child, I’d use them. Now I have a 3 month old son and the diapers are in the wash as I type this. Maybe you could do a tutorial on making flannel flats, I’d love that!

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Gratitude = Health

If you’re lucky enough to have a sibling with whom you’ve shared years of secrets, squabbles, laughter, and love, you’ll get a kick out of this.

Twin sisters, ca. 1911. Photo courtesy of Wikimedia Commons, Bain News service photo via Library of Congress

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Real Worth of Farm Animals

Travel. It’s something I do these days. More than I’d prefer. If I didn’t HAVE to travel, I’d probably never go more than 30 miles past the end of my lane. But because it seems to be what’s required of me these days, I’ve figured out how to make it work for me. I’ve discovered it’s in the little things, the perks. A handmade travel case I adore. The snacks I prepare the night before. The books I get to read. The luxury of a quiet hotel room that’s all mine. The dinner I pack on ice that greets me when, travel weary, I open my suitcase the first night I arrive. Time to paint my toenails. Time to think. Stare out a window.

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  1. Osagegypsy says:

    You are right MJ. My horses take me away from myself and my worries. Brushing manes and teaching the babies not to nip, fly spray, ointment on wounds, scrubbing the water tanks. Much easier than cleaning house!

  2. Mary Jo Vick says:

    What a lovely post, MJ! I have to say that I AM thankful that you travel because I was one of the fortunate ones that spent the afternoon with you and Meggie in St. Paul learning about bread… your way. I spoke with you about wanting to do a B&B in west Texas with airstreams… anyhoo… I relate to your words about leaving your ‘soft place to land’ as I call it. My energy shifts in such a degree at the ranch that it’s nice to know you relate as well. Your blog writing is wonderful… it is personal and connecting… it feels like you’re writing ME a little note and I’m very proud of you!

    • MaryJane says:

      Blush, gosh, golly, shuffle my feet and kick the dirt. Airstreams yes, but how about small chic retreats like the one in our Feb/March 2011 (Sanctuaries) issue? Each of our units have an outdoor tub but our shower house is communal along with the outhouses. If Texas is too hot, you could have AC also. Remember to appeal to women. They BRING their partners for sure but the B&B world seems to be driven by the female need to experience the romance of PLACE.

  3. Deb says:

    Hi Mary Jane! This is so fun, you haveing a blog!!!
    I travel like you do… with one foot at home and the other one out in the world stepping into new experiences with anticipation and some nerves as well… I love your idea of ” little comforts ” to bring along and your ” grateful goodbye” is similar to what I do… I write a note of love and thanks and pack it in my carry on….I’ts my good luck note for traveling! I give thanks for all I have, and all that I will experience while I’m away, and I pray for a safe return….What could be better than ” grounding” yourself upon your return with your animals… It’s calming, centering and just plain good for the soul! Naturally, I’m always happy to see my family, and I can’t wait to reconnect with my ” girls” our corgi Max and my gardens…
    As always, your words sooth and inspire! THANK YOU!
    hugs,
    Deb ( your BEACH farmgirl blogger )

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Happiness Is Catching

I’m finding contagious joy in the silliest of places!

I’ve noticed that the things that make us smile don’t always make sense on paper. If you’d like an example, look no further than…

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  1. sheryylynn1000 says:

    Just what I needed.
    I often tell my children stories about the silly things we’ve done. When my son was around this same age he would smear his baby food all over his mouth to get us to laugh–then he would do the same chortle.
    As they get older it seems as if we forget to laugh with them. I try to turn any event into a giggle fest. Checkout the game “slamwich”, within minutes I can have my kids laughing that “pee-in-you-pants” giggle even as a teen!

  2. i giggle every time a lemon pip (seed) gets in my mouth. I usually, make that always, get them while sipping through a straw from drinks like iced water or tea. I should probably mention that I drink a lot of lemon water and tea! The reason i giggle is that I used to “try” to spit the pip out every time it happened with abysmal results. Now i react to a pip in my mouth like pavlov’s dog to a bell. I giggle even though i no longer even bother to try and spit them out even though I still drink copious amounts of lemon in my beverages. My failed pip spittings over the years resulted in my spitting seeds all over my car (or porch or office…) while trying to spit them out the window (or off the porch or into the office trash…). Once, when i would have finally made it out the car window, finally! The window wasn’t rolled down! That pip bounced off the window and ricocheted off my chin back into the car with the other pips. I hit passengers, accidentally of course, while aiming away from them. pathetic. nowadays I just let them tumble out of my mouth into my hand and throw them away. Oh, and yes, I am just as bad at throwing as i am at spitting! My giggling continues.

  3. Kayla Marie says:

    I laugh ridiculously at my cats chasing a laser. It keeps them active and they are so funny that they will chase it and run into a wall or your leg. It keeps me laughing and healthy!

  4. Cyndi says:

    My dogs break up paper also, and paper towels are their favorite!
    Smiles, Cyndi

  5. Sue says:

    Thank you for my first real laugh of the day. My rule is to have at least one good belly laugh every day. It’s good for the soul. Luckily I have a a very funny husband.

  6. Debbie says:

    Oh Meg,
    Both of those are great! We laugh when our Corgi Max attacks the water coming out of the hose and when we use a metal tape measure… Hmmm maybe we better get filming!!!
    thanks for the belly laughs!
    Deb ( your beachfarmgirl )

  7. Meg says:

    A good laugh per day MUST be good for our health! Happy laughing! 😉

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Rock On!

I’ll bet that when you’re counting your blessings, rocking gently as you meditate on all that you have to be thankful for, you’re probably leaving out your seat!

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  1. Ginny says:

    Sure do! And it’s all those things you mention! Bought it when I was in labor with my baby, sitting in it at our small town auction while my hubby was running around the Festival we were at doing his weekly newspaper duties! When they at last got to the rocker, the auctioneer apologized for making me get up to auction it off, said he needed $25.00 for it minimum. Knowing I didn’t have a rocker for that baby trying to get out, I bid on it and no one wanted to bid against me! Still rock in it today, but boy the horse hair sticking out of the fabric sure does itch! Thanks for the memory!

  2. Angela says:

    Ever since I was a little girl, when I get really upset I go sit in my grandfather’s wooden rocking chair. I never knew him as he died when I was a baby, but the comfort I feel from just sitting in that chair is something I can’t put into words.

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No Way

Katie Terry is a Utah County woman who exemplifies gratitude. She already had two special-needs kids when she was paralyzed from the waist down in an auto accident. Yet in an effort to live the best life she can, she’s been running races with a hand-cycle. In fact, she took part in the Boston Marathon.

She is, literally, inspiration on wheels.

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